Jesus said to him, “If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!” John 21:22

As I get older, I have come to the place to spend more time listening then talking. You learn more when you first watch and listen then act and speak. The biggest difference today is also grasping the meaning of what is being asked or said. In the old days it seems words contain specific definitions. Today, words have a way of changing their meaning overnight. Also in the old days, it seems people were more precise in their chosen words. Today, the words are misplaced and misused more often than not. This may happen at work, in the home, and also in the faith community you attend.
Recently I had this experience speaking with church leaders. They were interested in starting a discipleship training program. After several minutes, how each person in the group defined discipleship became obvious. We were not on the same page.
Some thought discipleship as learning how to better evangelize the word. Some thought of gaining better knowledge of the church’s doctrinal positions. A few emphasized the importance of practicing spiritual disciplines. Then of course, there was me. Alone again, naturally.
All the things mentioned are a part of discipleship, but in my opinion, not its core. The central core of discipleship is Jesus. To follow HIM. To learn life by walking with HIM. HE is the teacher; we are the student. Being a disciple is having a relationship with Jesus. Allowing HIM to tutor you via the Holy Spirit.
Discipleship is a training process under the tutelage of Jesus. One learns to view the world through HIS eyes. To partner with HIM in your ventures through life. To learn how to be more effective as a spouse, parent, and child. How to be Kingdom focus in your career, work, and play. How to think with wisdom in your everyday practices. As you hang out more with HIM, your attitude and actions become more like HIS. The student becomes more and more like their teacher.
A good discipleship program equips one to with the tools to become more attuned to Jesus in their world. One studies the life of Jesus in all circumstances. You study how HE related with people. How did HE communicate with others? What was HIS focus in HIS relationships? How did HE act on HIS tasks at hand? How did HE recuperate at the end of the day? How did HE prepare Himself for the start of a new day? How did HE spend HIS free time? How did HE lead? How did HE follow others? How did HE use Scripture? One studies into HIS life to gain head knowledge. But the real walk is living life with HIM throughout the day.
I compare it to a ballroom dance. The music is playing. The dance floor is open. This is your time. You have been preparing yourself for a long time for a moment like this. You wait. The anticipation is growing. You Asked your Teacher this morning for his help today. You know HE is dependable and always available to help you. But now you are Seeking HIS presence. The announcer speaks your name. The Opportunity is here. The moment has arrived. You take your first step toward the floor. You sense HIS presence. HIS encouragement. HIS confidence. HIS assurance. You give it your best. You know HIS grace is sufficient to cover any shortfall.
Whatever the outcome, you are OK. You are being held by HIS arms. You dance for HIS glory. For HIS namesake. You consider it a privilege to dance with your teacher on this day and every day.
Discipleship is learning to function each day with Jesus. To make decisions together. To learn how best to live and love like HIM. Together to bless others. To show HIS Kingdom ways for others to capture the same vision HE has given you.
Like Jesus speaking with Peter on the beach before his ascension into heaven, the same holds true for us. Both Peter and John are HIS disciples. Both have chosen to follow HIM. Yet each may have a different ministry on earth to fulfill. Don’t compare yourself with the other. Instead focus on your purpose in walking with HIM. Peter and John both served Jesus. Both followed HIM till their last breath on earth. Jesus loved both of them.
Discipleship is following Jesus on an individual basis. But also collectively supporting one another in their walk. Together we form the church. But each with individual gifting and mission. As you learn to relate, walk, and spend time together with Jesus, HE will become more and more involved in your life. The result is a life well lived as a disciple of HIS.
Rooting For You in Christ!
Dr. Mike
Faith-Integrator, Encourager, Scribbler
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