Me-ology

Then he told them what they could expect for themselves: “Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead. You’re not in the driver’s seat—I am. Don’t run from suffering; embrace it. Follow me and I’ll show you how. Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self. What good would it do to get everything you want and lose you, the real you? If any of you is embarrassed with me and the way I’m leading you, know that the Son of Man will be far more embarrassed with you when he arrives in all his splendor in company with the Father and the holy angels. This isn’t, you realize, pie in the sky by and by. Some who have taken their stand right here are going to see it happen, see with their own eyes the kingdom of God.”  Luke 9:23-27 (MSG)

Me-ology is the inverse of theology. Theology is the study of God. Me-ology is the study of me. In our current culture, it’s all about “ME”. It is about how I feel, I want, and I deserve. It is about self-help, self-image, and self-attainment. The world evolves around me, myself, and I.

When one becomes a Christ-follower, one unknowingly carries over this same mindset. That is until God’s Spirit turns on the light of Christ. Then the struggle becomes who is Lord – Jesus or me.

Jesus own words to us all is, “if anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me(Lk. 9:23-24 ESV). The me here is Jesus, not self. He is Lord. We need to surrender our kingdom under HIS domain. As we do, HE begins to transform our spirit. Our heart and will begins the journey of learning how to live HIS way.

Instead of pride leading, humility rules. Instead of self-aggrandizement, we gladly sacrifice to serve others. Instead of running away from suffering, we embrace it. We are slowly being transformed into a new creation.

We discover our God-given strengths in HIM. He knows us and is preparing an eternal home for us. HE knows how we can best serve HIM and HIS people within HIS Kingdom. The onion is peeled away to reveal the Christ-centered being you were born to become.

So the way to get there, is not by focusing on yourself, but by surrendering yourself to Jesus. Let HIM lead you through the dance floor of life. HE will take you places you would never consider. HE will go along with you to pursue your dreams, but show you HIS way of accomplishing them. You will become more and more like HIM in character and attitude. What you once considered of value, you now shrug your shoulders. You have discovered the joy of studying HIM and HIS ways.

You come to the place in life where its no longer about me, but about HIM. HE becomes your story. Your narrative. Your life. And you rejoice in the process.   

Rooting For You in Christ!

Dr. Mike

Faith-Integrator, Encourager, Scribbler

We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives,” (Colossians 1:9)

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Selfishness or Self-Interest?

“You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Mark 12:31 ESV

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Somewhere we may have forgotten the difference between selfishness and self-interest.

Jesus stated that we are to love our neighbors as our selves. Yet we are told not to be self-centered. How can one be interested in the self without being self-centered?

Simply defined: self-interest is recognizing that the self is a person, made in the image of God, and is important in God’s domain.

Selfishness on the other hand, is when we only recognize our own personal desires and needs without taking into account the interest of others.

Without the protection of self-interest, we become pawns manipulated by others. Even Jesus said that we are to be harmless as doves but as wise as serpents when dealing with the world.

Without the Spirit of God, a person generally behaves with their personal agenda the center of life. With the Spirit of God one begins to view life from the others perspective. That includes God’s view and the people around us.

We begin to realize that all have been justified through the life and death of Jesus. That we can be a witness for others. We can work with the Spirit for the sake of others as they learn to accept Jesus as their Boss. Until then and thereafter, we are to be concern with our brothers and sisters. We are to take care of them as we want others to take care of us.

As children of God’s Kingdom, we are to follow the lead of the Spirit in our life. We are to include God and others in our decisions. And when push comes to shove, we deny ourselves for God’s glory and for the sake of others. It is not all about me. It is about God, others, and me.

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Dr. Mike

Consultant, Coach, Encourager
Marketplace Bible Institute
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