Patience Under Construction

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Remember in our early business careers how restless we became when events and situations didn’t occur as quickly as we had planned?  We would probably become frustrated and at times outwardly angry because of it. Some of us were probably even an explosive bomb with a very short timer. Then one day we found our self waiting in the lobby of a customer. Previously to this time, we would have waited for a few minutes and if the customer didn’t arrive, we would reschedule and move on to other important priorities of the day. But remember that first time when it was different? When we found our self waiting patiently for their late arrival. There was no frustration. There was no anger. There was no explosion. There was only calm, reassuring patience. We may have even forgotten to this day what was the result of our meeting except for the fact that we had exercised patience for the very first time in our life.

A friend shared this story with us a few days ago. He mentioned that at seventeen he started to realize he needed to change and to improve himself. So he began working on improving his character via the old Benjamin Franklin method. He would list the character traits that he knew needed improving and was working diligently to make himself a better person. But patience was not on top of the list. It was way, way, down on the list. There was what he considered more important items that needed to deal with. This is why he marveled. He didn’t do anything to change his behavior in regards to patience. His focus was working on other leadership traits that he considered more important. This was his first experience of truly marveling at the power of God working within him. He came to realize that the real permanent internal change was not caused by him building habits of success. But the real changes in his life came from the Holy Spirit creating within him a masterpiece that only He could produce. This time is was patience. He truly then realized that he is under construction and the Master builder is God.

Since that time he has come to realize that his priorities for spiritual growth are different than God’s plan for him. Why would a young man desire patience? Are there any other more important characteristics that he could use to shape the world? In his case, patience was the first fruit of the spirit that God must have considered more important in his life at that time. Now we see why.

It is through patience that faith comes alive. It is through patience that love is revealed. It is through patience that joy is expressed. It is through patience that peace rules. It is through patience that self-control is exercised. It is through patience that kindness is exemplified. It is through patience that goodness wins out. It is through patience that gentleness makes its mark.

To walk by patience is to walk with God. God is very patient with us. He wants us to learn from Him and to become like Him. As a disciple of His, we are also disciples of patience.  God truly knows what is best for us. Let us walk with Him and trust Him to patiently create His masterpiece in us as we live in Him.

OUR PRAYER

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Thank you Lord for building your patience in us. Help us in our lack of it. Let your Spirit fill us with the entire Fruit of your Spirit. You know which one we need most today. Let your glory and honor always be revealed in your children. Amen.

Yours In Christ,

Dr. Mike

Coach, Consultant, and Speaker

Author of Great Business Emulates a Good God
Portal: Be Radical…EnjoyLifeInChrist.com

 

Comfort Is Only One Lean Away

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You may have experience something like this one time or another with your child.  While sitting in a church service. your daughter leans next to you laying her head on your shoulder. After a few minutes, she returns to her sitting position. If you asked your daughter afterwards, she would most likely comment something to the fact that it feels good to lean against someone who loves you; to lean on someone that makes you feel loved, and loves you no matter what. When she does it, isn’t she really saying to you that she loves you and feels safe with you. Doesn’t it also make us smile because it’s the same feeling we have with God. It feels good to lean on Him.

As adults, most of us feel all grown up. However, if we are truly honest with ourselves, most of us would have to make a confession. We do not. Oh yes, we may be grown up physically, mentally, emotionally, and socially. But spiritually is another story. We are kids still in awe of our Dad. He’s so big and strong that we feel so small and inadequate in his presence. Just like a child comparing himself with his parent. At times we may feel grown up like our parents, but deep inside we realize that they are a little older and more experienced than we are at the present moment. But isn’t it reassuring that we will grow up to become like them?

As a child finds comfort in knowing there is someone who loves her and will take care of her as she grows, we likewise find comfort with our heavenly Dad. When times become difficult, when the direction is difficult to choose, when the pain becomes unbearable, when friends are few, when the financial resources run scarce, it’s comforting to know we have a loving Dad who cares about us and is always available to be leaned against.

We can be sure that God feels good being leaned against. Just like it makes us feel good when our child leans against us. We can be sure that God enjoys a similar experience.  Just as we want to give our children the best of everything, including the best education and character development, we know that God wants to give the best to us. It’s very comforting to know that help is only one lean away.

OUR PRAYER

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Our Great, Comforting and Dependable Dad, thank you for always being available when we need you. Though at times you seem so far removed, and sometimes like you don’t even know us, we have come to know that you are always present.

You give us reassurance when we most need it. You give us comfort when it hurts. You give us your shoulder to lean against when the load becomes too heavy. You give more than we ever request.

When you refrain from immediately answering our prayers as we desire, you still answer in a way that gives us comfort and peace that you are in control and everything will work out for the best.  All this is because of Jesus who we make this request through. Thank you. Thank you.  Amen.  Amen.

Yours In Christ,

Dr. Mike

Coach, Consultant, and Speaker

Author of Great Business Emulates a Good God

 

 

We Choose Mustard Seeds Over Mountains

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Have you ever taken a minute to list all the words opposite of faith? Here are a few that come to mind at this time: fear, doubt, sight, unbelieving, dishonest, inconstant, fickle, wavering, fluctuating, disloyal, untruthful, untrusting, unreliant, and unsteadfast. Ever experience one of these unfaithful moments?

It’s a dumb question because we all have tasted the negative reaction of living life apart from faith at one time or another. For many of us though, it may be the majority of our lives. We grow up being beaten down by society, peers, employers, and yes even family and friends. Apart from the grace of God, we learn to live in fear, or place our hope on superstition, self-confidence, or hero worship. All which eventually fail us. Then what is a person to do?

As a disciple of His, we have come to learn from Him. We have come to develop a relationship with a Living Being that controls the universe. A Living Entity that has created everything for the ultimate purpose of preparing a people who one day will rule the universe with Him. Those who have surrendered to Him, He has given them real gifts of life and blessings reserved for His children. One of those gifts is the precious spirit of faith in Him.

When we begin to walk with Him in faith, our experiences are limited. However,  as problems arise and challenges abounded, circumstances occurred that increased our faith. Whenever the events are greater than us, weturned to God. He then turns our attitudes and focus unto Him where we begin to see the circumstances, people’s hearts, and events as He sees it.  Many times we then realize they are really in our favor. He reveals to us His awesome power through miracles in our life. In our early walk with Him, the miracles are probably more than today. Today, it seems that the miracles are more sporadic. Maybe, the faith that has been built-up over the years has grown where the next time our faith is being challenged the miracle is going to be the biggest and best yet. It is one thing to live by faith for the small things in life, but it’s another to live by faith for the larger things in life.

As Jesus explained, the faith of a mustard seed moves mount·ains. We as a people often focus on the relationship between the large mountain and the small seed. We see how large the mountain is compared to the small seed and based on our physical understandings would bet on the mountain all the time. However, remember that in God’s hand that mustard seed is just as great if not greater. A mustard seed’s potential is that it can grow and multiply. The mountain cannot. A mustard seed can grow and multiply until it covers the entire mountain. It can continue to grow and cover the entire mountain. It can continue to grow where eventually you would have enough trees that could pile up higher and weight more than the mountain. Get the point?

Living with faith means trusting in a Heavenly Dad that loves us and wants what is best for us; it believes that He has our best interest at heart and will work with us to develop it. As a disciple of His, we live everyday with faith in Him. Our faith may be challenged and our faith may fall short of the mark. But, He will teach us, love us, and direct us so that the faith we exercise is pleasing to Him. And He will bless us accordingly.

As the old song goes, “We walk by faith and not by sight.”

OUR PRAYER

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Our Heavenly Dad, help our unbelief. Help us develop a closer relationship with you. Help us to walk with you. Help us to see life through your eyes; to evaluate our circumstances and surroundings with you the central core.

We praise you and worship you. Let your faith live in us and through us. Let everything we believe and act upon be done for your glory and honor.  Let this life be a living example of your way of life. Let your spirit come alive and breathe through us. Let your faith surround us. Whenever doubt arrives, let faith stand up and be victorious. Let faith be your living power expressed in this life.  We thank you, praise you, and bless you. Amen.

Yours In Christ,

Dr. Mike

Coach, Consultant, and Speaker

Author of Great Business Emulates a Good God
Portal: Be Radical…EnjoyLifeInChrist.com