sacrificial love

Sacrifice, Suffering, Service

Dr. Mike 2023 , , , ,

Hebrews 10:39

But we are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who have faith and preserve their souls.

Jesus Christ is our reference point. As Christ-followers we study HIS life and learn to live life as HE did. Though each of us have unique personalities along with different sets of DNA, we collectively gravitate towards HIS  values and macro-purpose.

His teachings pierced the humanistic approach toward life. His attitude, mannerism, and behavior clashed with the authorities of that time. His worldview opened the eyes of the common people to capture God’s vision.

Unbridled human nature longs for more portions, power, and pleasure. Yet Jesus came along and demonstrated the value of sacrifice, suffering, and service. Which is more commercially or politically attractive to you?

If we are honest, our inclination is to want more, thinking these items will please our internal desire. Yet when one directs their life towards altruistic sacrifice, suffering, and service, the outcome is a more Christlike spirit touching your heart while impacting others for HIS glory. The abundant life Jesus taught his disciples becomes a reality in your world when you follow HIM.

Sacrifice is an attribute of the good life. To sacrifice means you are the master of your possessions. Money, time or any other physical item doesn’t control you and longer. Yes, it may hurt at first as you battle your inner demons. But as you let go and give to another from your plenty, they benefit by your action, and so do you. Jesus demonstrated his entire life the value of sacrificing for others. He left eternity to become finite. He was tempted at the beginning of his ministry to immediately pursue political, religious, and economic power for himself. But declined the offer to fulfill his divine purpose laid out from the beginning of time. And of course, he gave up his life to pay the ransom for humanity. Love is sacrificial.

Suffering unmasks our humanity. When comfort turns into pain, we rebel. We shy away from those who suffer because of the awkwardness. Some may run away because of the insecure inability to solve the problem. Yet, most of the time people don’t want your advice or solution but a concern ear. Personal suffering introduces us to a small taste of the pain Jesus went through on Calvary. When someone removes our pain and accepts to carry it  in our place, real love is demonstrated. Suffering reminds us of King Jesus’ sacrificial love in HIS ultimate action of redeeming humanity from the powers of evil.

Service belittles power. Power operates from a position of influential fear. But perfect love casts out fear (1 Jn. 4:18). When one serves from a position of love, one breaks down walls of injustice, hatred, and envy. To serve others is the highest calling within the Kingdom of God. In God’s government, its citizens serve one another out of respect and humility. Jesus demonstrated over and over again that he came to serve others and not lord over them. His heart was always to uplift others and help them draw closer to his Father in heaven. When others asked for help, he did. If unable, he explained the reason why. In most cases HE didn’t have permission from HIS Father to make happen. Service is love in action.

Welcome to sainthood. The anti-cultural way of experiencing the abundant life to the fullest. Yes, sacrifice, suffering, and service are the hallmarks of Christ-followers. Our carnal nature despises such a path. But the Divinity that lives within us magnifies such an approach. When we allow HIM to lead us through the jungles of life, His character and ways rub off on us. Overtime, we become more and more like him. One day, we will be like HIM in character. We will behold HIM in full glory with our own eyes in the eternal home. Yes, HE is now preparing you and I for eternity.  Until then, practice.

Rooting For You in Christ!

Dr. Mike

Faith-Integrator, Encourager, Scribbler

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Love Hurts

Dr. Mike 2023 , , ,

Job 19:19

All my intimate friends abhor me, and those whom I loved have turned against me.

Psalm 109:5

So, they reward me evil for good, and hatred for my love.

John 15:13

Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.

1 John 3:17

But if anyone has the world’s goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God’s love abide in him?

When you open your heart and invest yourself into the life of another, you may find yourself hurt from the experience. Real, genuine love when put into practice is sacrificing the self for the sake of another.

We love another expecting to be loved in return. But what happens when our expectations are not met?

Job was a wealthy man who gave generously to his family, friends, and those in need. But when he lost his home, business, family, and even his health, his friends and even his wife considered him an outcast. When he needed help at the lowest point of his life, his wife recommended he curse God and die. His small circle of friends visited him preaching religious sound bytes. Instead of extending the truthful love he actually needed at the time, they beat him down further.

The Psalmist complained about those around him who returned his love with hate and the good he did came back with evil replies.

Jesus himself paid the ultimate price. HIS love for others disappeared into betrayal when his disciples fled away as he was taken prisoner in the night.

Yes, when you love others, you risk becoming hurt from the experience. But the risk is the price we pay to experience the greatest high this life has to offer – God’s love flowing in you and through you.

More books and movies have are made under the theme of love than any other. Based on my observations, love is the natural human epitome of experiencing the God-life. When we connect with another person in a way to contribute more toward their well being, we taste the character of God. When we sacrifice our time, money, and resources for their betterment, the feeling and pleasure we receive is another taste of God’s character. And since we are made in HIS image, we get to partake in how HE lives and shares life with others by loving others.

The Bible reminds us that God is love (1 John 4:8). The closer we lean on HIM, the more HIS character rubs unto us. Yet, like HIM, the pleasure of love also has another side – the pain of love.

We see this throughout the Old Testament where God’s people constantly and repeatedly would backslide into rebellion. From Adam & Eve to the startup nation of Israel, and all the people since is a history of blessings and curses in the name of love. God continues to exercise HIS steadfast love toward HIS earthly children. They either passively rebel, or openly rebel against HIM. The history of God’s people is a roller-coaster ride of super highs followed by drastic lows. Yet, every time God is hurt from our responsiveness, he refuses to except the situation. Instead HE moves on to extend HIS steadfast love through other means.

Every time you love someone, the risk is you will be hurt or disappointed. Yet, we are most grateful to surrender any potential pain unto Him who knows such pain – Jesus Christ. Our responsibility is to sacrificially love everyone. Yet be wise. Whether we live or die from such action, we trust God will be with us throughout the process. And that is always a good place to be.

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Dr. Mike

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Love Has No Agenda

Dr. Mike Life in Christ , , ,
“It(love) does not insist on its own way” I Corinthians 13:5 ESV

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Love is one of those words that has become cheaper through cultural opinion. Ask for a definition, and you will probably receive a multitude of answers. In today’s culture, it means different things for different folks.

For teenagers, it is the emotional tie that binds two people together until the feeling goes away. For newlyweds, it is the blindness that denies the imperfections of the other. For highly testosterone husbands, it is the words for a sexual encounter. For manipulative wives, it is the means to get what they may want.

Yet Paul writes that love is not something we get, but give.

Jesus gives us the perfect example of what love means in a very practical everyday way. To sacrifice the self for the sake of the other is love demonstrated. It is giving the self for the sake of others. It is not giving so others may agree with you. It is not giving so others do something for you. It is not giving so you may benefit from it at all. In fact, it may hurt to give. It may cost you your job. It may cost you a relationship. It may cost you your life.

Your response simply measures the love you have to give. It is what Jesus did for us. He set the example. He chose to empty his eternal habitat so he could walk among us. He gave himself as a sacrifice, so we can enter his eternal home.

We can either love accordingly or deny what it truly means from his context. So the next time you let someone know you love them, are you truly willing to sacrifice your time, money, and life for them without any expectations in return? Whatever your response, you now know what God knows about us. And even knowing this, He still unconditionally loves you and me.

He loves us whether or not we choose to follow him. Yes he wants us to respond to him in a favorable way. Yet if we do not, he still loves us. We may suffer the consequences of our rebellious attitude. Yet our response doesn’t stop Him from loving us. We may suffer from our stupidity. But He remains steadfast in His love for us. Isn’t that the Christ-like love we need to display?

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Dr. Mike

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